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Count Together

Count Together
Needs a room

Count to twenty as a room. No order, no leader, and two people speaking means starting again.

The room counts to twenty with nobody assigned a number and nobody leading, and if two people speak at once you go back to one. It is the quietest activity here and the most attentive β€” it forces a room to sense each other rather than organise.

Say this to the room

We're counting to twenty. Anyone can say any number, in order, but nobody may say two in a row and nobody organises it. If two of you speak at once, we go back to one. No pointing, no signals, no system.

FocusGroup CoordinationCollaborationNon-Verbal Communication
Use this when

You want a room properly attentive to each other, before something that needs listening β€” and you have the patience for several failures.

Props: None

Run this when…

If none of these is your room, pick another.
  1. Before a session on listening or team coordination

  2. A group who talk over each other

  3. A quiet close to a loud session

How to run it

Written to be glanced at mid-room, not memorised.

  1. Everyone stays seated. No circle needed, though it helps.
  2. Explain: anyone says any number in order, nobody says two in a row, no system allowed.
  3. Two people speaking at once means back to one. Say that cheerfully every time.
  4. Expect to fail in the first five numbers repeatedly. That is normal.
  5. Watch for a system emerging β€” going round the circle β€” and rule it out.
  6. When they get past fifteen, let them finish, then stop.

Running it well

Only the host sees these. Participants never do.

  • Rule out systems as soon as you see one. A room that starts going clockwise has solved a different, much easier problem and learned nothing.
  • Restart cheerfully and instantly. The tenth restart should sound exactly like the first, or the room gives up.
  • Silence between numbers is the room working. Do not fill it and do not encourage them to hurry.
  • Some rooms never get to twenty. Getting to twelve after eight attempts is a fine outcome β€” say so rather than grinding on.

Watch out for

Space, safety and the traps worth knowing before you start.

  • Nobody moves and nothing is physical.
  • The failure is collective rather than individual, which is what keeps it safe β€” never identify who the two voices were.

Already seated

Nobody has to stand for this one.

Entirely seated, and it works better with eyes down than in a circle.

Run it yourself

Free for thirty days, no card. Put it on the projector and step through it β€” nobody in the room needs a phone.

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At a glance
6–30people
5–10minutes
Energylow
Where
Needs a room
Props
None
Big screen
Required
Teams
Individual only
What it builds
collaboration